Podcast

EP 17: Rising above the median trap - with Ben Perreau

Most AI tools are trained to give you something. An answer, a rewrite, a suggestion. But what if that helpfulness is quietly pushing everyone toward the same voice, the same style, the same median?

Thomas Horak CEO

Ben Perreau is a former journalist, founder and CEO of Parafoil — a leadership intelligence tool that uses real meeting transcripts to help managers understand how they’re actually leading, not how they think they are. He started his career in newsrooms during the shift from analog to digital, then built startups in music tech before landing here.

In this conversation, Tom and Ben explore:

  • Why journalism taught him to separate stories from evidence — and why that skill now matters more than ever

  • How most LLMs push you toward the median when leaders need to be differentiated

  • The risk of AI becoming a crutch that atrophies skill rather than building it

  • Why chatbots are incentivised to always give you something, even when nothing was needed

  • Who gets to define the “better version” of a leader that a tool optimises toward

  • Why he thinks chat interfaces are like drinking your whole meal through a straw

  • His contrarian take: this is actually the best time in decades to start building things yourself

Ben also shares why he named his company Applied Humanity, how Parafoil avoids the surveillance trap by keeping data private to the individual, and why liberal arts degrees still matter.

If you’re thinking about how AI is reshaping management, wondering whether these tools make us sharper or just smoother, or building anything that touches how people work together — this one gets into it.


Links

Parafoil: A leadership intelligence platform that turns real conversations into insight, helping managers improve through evidence rather than heuristics.

Ben Perreau: Founder and CEO of Parafoil (Applied Humanity, Inc.). Former journalist and radio presenter, with a background spanning BBC, NME, Sky Television, and music tech startups Synkio and Gigulate.

Thomas Horak is the founder of All Shapes, a design and product studio working with founders, scale-ups and innovative enterprises to build meaningful digital tools that last. All Shapes blends craft, culture and human clarity — helping teams move from early concepts to high-performing, values-aligned experiences.

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